Maternity and Paternity → How to be prepared for Child Birth

Only half of the women to learn about unplanned pregnancy, no thought has continued to go to the pregnant condition and enjoy life. In the second half, together with the positive results of tests on a head dump a million questions that may answer at once — but no doubt about that.

1. For the child should be too much money, we have not.
The decree — that is, of course, in material matters difficult time and ensure that the family will have only the husband. But you can beat this issue very differently, the child is not necessarily to buy expensive prams, cot or clothes. Or if you have friends who already have an elder child, perhaps they are can give you all things or you can buy them for similar price, which is far lower than the price of new ones. If friends do not, simply can not buy a new carriage and the cot, but things do not necessarily buy in expensive shops.

2. What career?
Of course, a child will require you to go to a decree for at least a year and a half, but how much free time you will have — you'll be able to increase skills or even learn to adapt to new horizons. And if you are the main source of family income — ask to sit in the decree the husband or the grandmother, and they initially take vacations for a couple of months. But even if you stayed in the decree, and know that in the long run lose the old position, you can be confident when applying for a new job, you do not refuse, is simply to indicate that a child in the care of nannies or grannies. And the presence of a child makes you perspective to their bosses than a young girl without a child, after all, perhaps, her decree is not far off.

3. Fear that a child could be born unhealthy.
This can almost always avoid, thanks to modern methods of diagnosis of congenital abnormalities.

4. Afraid to lose form?
Indeed, pregnancy changes the status of women, both external and internal, because the first term will be different values. But even if you have something and are not satisfied, you also can easily remove it and continue to follow the figure as before.

5. «I do not get to be a good mother».
The notion of a good mother, especially, includes the love of a child. Love your crumbs and motherly instinct tells you what and how to do. And be assured — all of these fears are far-fetched, and when you take your baby at your hands, you forget about them, and will enjoy life.